The NHL player, 36, told Us Weekly exclusively about how his has inspired him. Though the athlete didn’t want to speak on behalf of the dancer’s sexual preference, he did get candid about how the judge has evolved and how she’s challenged him to do the same.
“My wife, to her credit, is constantly evolving, challenging, growing,” Laich told Us on the set of Hallmark’s Home & Family while promoting his “How Men Think” podcast with on Thursday, September 5. “[It’s] not out of desperation, but out of curiosity, out of exploring who she is, exploring what’s meaningful to her. She’s grown and shifted in so many ways since we’ve met, which is absolutely beautiful.”
Specifically, Laich cites his and Hough’s different personalities as the reason why he’s grown so much in their relationship.
“My wife is literally everything I’m not. I love her because of her heart. She has a stronger heart than I do,” he said. “She has a level of compassion that I envy. Her level of compassion for people is not natural to me. When I see how her heart beats with every single person, I just admire it. She’s challenged me to grow in ways that I resist against and push against.”
Though Laich admits that he and Hough are different from when they met, he considers their relationship stronger than ever.
“When you enter a marriage or a relationship, you enter it always with appreciation and acceptance of that person,” he said. “Even though they’re going to change over time, if you can remember those two things, she’s still and will always be my best friend. it’s really enjoyable to watch somebody grow and to be a part of their story.”
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“I [told him], ‘You know I’m not straight, right?’ And he was like, ‘I’m sorry, what?’” she said. “I was like, ‘I’m not. But I choose to be with you.’”
The choreographer continued, “I think there’s a safety with my husband now that I’m unpacking all of this, and there’s no fear of voicing things that I’ve been afraid to admit or that I’ve had shame or guilt about because of what I’ve been told or how I was raised.”
“I don’t find it frustrating,” she said at the time. “I know my truth and I know the energy behind whatever I said and what was put out there. People will define or label anything in this world and everything in this world, so I’m not mad at people who do that. It is what it is!”
Hough added, “The energy behind it is that, love is love. And that’s what I believe. That’s it! Like, it’s actually less complicated than everybody’s making it. It’s just, love is love.”
With reporting by Kayley Stumpe